Seeing Things from Others’ Perspectives: Learning to Walk in Their Shoes

I’m flawed; therefore, I won’t judge; instead, I’ll ask questions. — Marion Bekoe

It’s all too easy to pass judgment on someone else’s actions without truly understanding the circumstances that led to those choices. We might find ourselves thinking, “I would never do that,” or questioning the sanity of others, without considering the mental and emotional state they were in at the time.

Throughout my own challenges and adversities, I faced a critical choice: take the easy route, which I knew would leave me feeling unfulfilled in the long run, or forge a new path filled with obstacles but leading towards self-pride and fulfillment. In navigating these challenges, I gained a newfound perspective on the decisions people make, especially during times of unimaginable hardship.

Many individuals opt for what may seem like the “easy” path, making decisions they may not be proud of, all in the name of providing for themselves or their families. While it’s tempting to pass judgment, I’ve learned to withhold judgment and instead seek to understand the motivations behind their actions. After all, I can never fully grasp the mindset or emotions someone experiences in their darkest moments.

Recognizing the disparity in opportunities available to different individuals, I’ve made it my mission to offer support and assistance to everyone, regardless of their background or circumstances. While some of us are fortunate to have unwavering support from family and friends, others face their challenges alone—a reality I cannot fathom.

With Cosgn, no one stands alone. We strive to create a judgment-free environment where individuals can share their stories and receive the support they need to pursue their dreams. Whether it’s starting a business to provide for their families or simply finding a sense of community and belonging, we’re here to lend a helping hand.

Before rushing to judgment, it’s essential to consider not only our own perspectives but also the mindset and emotions of those we’re judging. If understanding seems out of reach, let’s strive to ask questions, empathize, and walk in their shoes, even if just for a moment. It’s through this empathy and understanding that we can truly build a more compassionate and supportive world for all.

Judging you will not change anything, but asking you what happened gets me closer to understanding. — Marion Bekoe