Knowing When to Walk Away: Setting Boundaries
It’s not your fault how they choose to behave towards you, but it’s your fault when you let it continue. – Marion Bekoe
In life, knowing when to walk away is a crucial skill that can protect our well-being and preserve our sanity. With the belief that everything happens for a good reason and life is too short for second chances, I’ve learned to set firm boundaries and prioritize my mental and emotional health above all else.
Forgiveness is a virtue I hold dear, but it comes with a caveat: I will forgive, but I will never forget. As mere mortals, we are not divine beings capable of endless forgiveness. While mistakes are a natural part of life, I firmly believe that they are often premeditated actions, not mere accidents.
For someone like me, who thrives on helping others without expecting anything in return, crossing a line that undermines my kindness and generosity is a line too far. Whether it’s selfishness or selflessness, the intentions reside within the heart of the individual. While we cannot control the actions of others, we can control our own reactions.
Learning to walk away, forgive, and disengage from anything that drains my positive energy has been a transformative journey. It’s about protecting my well-being and preserving my inner peace above all else.
Startups: Protecting Your Energy
For startups, setting boundaries is equally important. Learning to walk away from people, partners, or clients who no longer serve your best interests is crucial for maintaining your momentum and safeguarding your success. Your energy is a valuable resource—protect it at all costs.
If at any point Cosgn ceases to be beneficial to your journey or begins to feel like a one-sided relationship, I give you full permission to cut ties with us. While we strive to ensure that your needs are always prioritized and met, we understand that circumstances change and priorities shift. We will never trap you in lengthy contracts or obligations that do not serve your best interests.
At Cosgn, we are committed to serving, not using or abusing our clients. Our services are designed to empower and support startups on their journey to success. By always putting our clients first and prioritizing their needs, we aim to build meaningful and mutually beneficial relationships that stand the test of time.
Conclusion
Knowing when to walk away is a powerful act of self-preservation and self-respect. By setting boundaries and protecting our energy, we can cultivate a life filled with positivity, growth, and fulfillment. At Cosgn, we understand the importance of prioritizing our clients’ well-being and ensuring that our services always add value to their journey. Together, let’s walk the path of success with confidence and clarity, knowing that we have the power to shape our destiny and protect our peace of mind.